FOR SARAH BALABAGAN, OFW
Note: OFW stands for “Overseas Filipino Workers.” As of 2010, there were believed to be close to 2 million OFWs working in almost every country in the world, including Albania, Mongolia, Romania, and Swaziland.
You with the round face, the dark blue headscarf, I saw you first at 3 p.m.
It was a hot afternoon in September. I’d opened Marie Claire or Glamour, I don’t now remember which, and there you were, grave and unsmiling. (But what cause would you have to smile? I found out all, later.)
Your father’s name was Karim, and your mother’s, Bai. You grew up in the island of Mindanao, in the Philippines. You were fourth in a family of fourteen children.
The man who raped you was dead (I was happy to read). You stabbed him 34 times.
You knew that most likely you were never going to get a husband. Not after what had happened.
It was the worst thing you ever imagined. Not just the pain, no — it was worse than that. The telling to your mother – it nearly finished you.
He gouged the skin of your throat with his long fingernails. You were afraid, but the fear was nothing compared to your shame.
You asked yourself, “Why?” Your brothers too said it, but they pointed fingers at your mother (who wept, who refused to leave the house for months, who even attempted suicide) and sometimes, (though not as much) at your father.
Your brothers shouted, “Why did you let her go? To a place like that?”
The newspapers recorded every accusation.
As if anyone could ever have foreseen such a catastrophe.
The man who sat across the table from you at the police station in Abu Dhabi, the man you knew only as “Pak,” said over and over: “You said that such and such a thing happened on such and such a day. Why do you make up such stories?”
You said, “I swear to God – “
“Swearing is a sin. Whose God are you swearing at? You will be tortured if you don’t stop these lies.”
They said you would be permitted to return home, but only after you confessed.
You held out for four months. Then, the man named Pak came again with the form and this time, you signed it. “Now you have nothing to worry about,” Pak said.
A week later, you were in the courtroom to hear your sentence. While you waited for the translation, you imagined yourself back home. Your lawyer patted your hand. The look on his face was sorrowful.
Sentenced to death, he said. “What?” you said. He repeated, Sentenced to death.
I read how the murdered man’s sons spoke on your behalf. Yes, they told the court. We believe our father capable of rape.
Because of their testimony, the sentence was reduced to 100 lashes. After another year in prison, you returned home. You were thin and wan – Oh, you were much changed.
They said you became a singer. Your voice, though untrained, was described as “pure,” which must have pleased your brothers no end.
You became quite well-known, and sang in shows with Heart Evangelista and Dulce Amor. You opened for Dingdong Avanzado, and were invited to record a duet with the popular Ogie Alcasid.
As for your mother, she still says, over and over, It was never my idea.
You had your first child at 18. The father was a journalist. He left you after two years.
In your mind, you have never left Abu Dhabi. You are still in that small barred cell, shrinking in horror from the jailers who point at your shaved head and mutter curses. You will always be there, enacting penitence for an event that never ends and a guilt that never leaves. It is there always, in your blood, as is fear.
– End
