Personal Library 5

In five more days Christmas 2012 will be over!  Over, over, over!

Self feels like singing.

No more traffic!  No more lines!  No more snarling soccer moms barreling along the streets in their behemoth SUVs!

Anyhoo, back to the tabulation of her books.

Last night, the count was up to 145.

Now, she turns to a small pile behind the pile she tabulated last night.

In this small pile, there are also five books.

She will not list them all, as she’s quite behind in her reading and writing today.  She spent the whole afternoon in: a) Costco and b) Stan-fuhd.  Speaking of Dear Old Alma Mater, they have added so many new buildings!  Self’s jaw dropped at the sight of the new Bing Auditorium.

She called Niece G to wish Niece a Happy Belated Birthday, only to be told (by txt msg) that Niece’s birthday isn’t until DECEMBER 27.  Oh thank heavens.  Self thought she had missed it.

Anyhoo, back to the book tabulation.

In this pile, there is a book edited by one of her former teachers, Arthur P. Wolf.  The book is Studies in Chinese Society, and self remembers it very well because it was her first required text in the graduate program in East Asian Studies.  And she was always in an agony of trying to call up quotes (to make herself sound more intelligent) during class.

The second book is a novel, First Person Plural, by Andrew W. M. Beierle, who she read with at The Writer’s Center in Bethesda, Maryland, early 2010 (Can that really be almost three years ago?  Heavens!)

And in this pile is a Very Very Special Book:  Hokusai:  One Hundred Poets.

It is the biggest, heaviest book that self owns, and it was a Christmas present from sole fruit of her loins, several years ago, when he was an undergrad in Cal Poly.  And it cost him a lot of money.  And he/we were all very strapped for funds at that time.  But such is love!

Cover Detail, HOKUSAI:  ONE HUNDRED POETS

Cover Detail, HOKUSAI: ONE HUNDRED POETS

Thank you, son!

From the Introduction:

Hokusai is one of the greatest artists of any time or place.  He was born in 1760, in the Katsushika district of Edo (now Tokyo) and lived into his ninetieth year, dying in 1849.

The last of his great print series was the One Hundred Poets.  Begun in the artist’s seventy-sixth year, the prints have a greater richness of color and more wealth of detail than the prints of any other series in this large format.

145 + 5 = 150 total # of books counted thus far

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

Last Wednesday of November (2012): The Philippine Consulate, 447 Sutter Street, San Francisco

There was a purported storm!  Supposed to hit the San Francisco Bay Area with a powerhouse punch!  It was all over the news yesterday and this morning, but when self drove to the City, the weather was practically balmy.

Self had occasion to thank her lucky stars that she lives in California!  A sentiment with which Niece G was in wholehearted agreement, having just come from spending Thanksgiving in New York, which according to her was a frigid 38 degrees.

Tonight, niece and self spent the evening in the cheery confines of the San Francisco Consulate at 447 Sutter.  This is a nondescript building, with some very fab posters of Philippine beaches adorning the various antiseptic hallways.

Who knew such fun was to be had in that consular place?  It was a reading for Lysley Tenorio, whose book of short stories, Monstress, has just been published (and, dare self say, blurbed by some very A-list writers).  It was a surprising evening in many ways, not least because Lysley was rocking a blue paisley shirt!  He read so well, he earned the undying adulation of Niece G, self, and all the consular officials!

Rashaan Alexis Meneses (soon to be in Hawthornden) was there, too, rocking a sort of hip Filipino look, with an embroidered top she said she bought from H & M, and a ‘do that was vaguely 20s Flapper!  And intricate patterned black tights!  And boots!  Self wondered why she can’t dream up outfits similar to Rashaan’s.  Must be because she is hopeless at shopping.  She definitely has inherited none of Dearest Mum’s genes in this regard.  Maybe Rashaan can accompany her some day, as a sort of fashion consultant?

And the story Lysley read was about a faith healer named Papa Felix.  Papa Felix’s performance hinged on procuring chicken livers from Chinatown!  And the story was just so ha-ha-ha funny!  But poignant, too!  How’d Lysley pull that off ???

Afterwards, Niece and self lined up to have our copies of Monstress signed, like a couple of bloomin’ acolytes, and we started to run off at the mouth a little, and you know what?  Lysley is very nice!  He even pronounced self’s name correctly!  That is, he said:  MAH-REE-YA-NEH!  Pronouncing, or should self say enunciating, with all the syllables so phonetically clear and crisp!

Not to mention, self got a copy of Barbara’s latest book!  She can’t wait to read it!  Barb was looking very hip in all black!  You can only get away with all black if you are a true celebrity!  Like Barbara!

The final cap to the excellent evening was that self got a pound of whole beans from Philz Coffee on 24th and Folsom.  They don’t list the coffee blends on a board, one is expected to have 20/20 eyesight and be able to read the labels on the bins behind the sales counter.  Self asked the salesperson to recommend a dark roast, and he recommended “Ether.”  It is so nice to know that, nestled in self’s freezer at the moment (She always freezes her whole beans), is a lb. of this fabulous Ether.  She has to wait until she finishes her current Ethiopian coffee supply, she is a firm believer in the pleasure of delayed gratification.

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

Amazing Life

Self knows the titles of her blog posts are getting more and more cryptic.  Oh well!  Life IS amazing.  What else can she say?

After dinner, she pulled down a book from one of son’s bookshelves.  Ah!  Winterbirth, the book she got for son from that Edinburgh bookstore, Transreal Fiction.  If she’s not mistaken, it was a signed copy.  Quick check of the title page:  yes!  There is author Brian Ruckley’s signature.  Self remembers asking the bookseller to recommend a book by the “best young science fiction writer in Scotland today,” and he took quite a long time before recommending Ruckley.

Winterbirth is almost 600 pages:  son should thank his lucky stars, she had to leave a lot of her odds and ends behind, because her suitcase was too full.  But this book she could not leave.  And in fact, when son visited earlier this year, self found she couldn’t actually part with the book, not until she had read it.  And son said it was OK.  Because he has so many other things on his mind!  He’d probably have gotten to the book five years from now!

Self now opens the book to the preface:

They say the world has fallen from its former state.

WOW!  Is she glad she kept the book!

Changing gears, today self had her “pre-op” appointment with an oral surgeon.  In little more than a week, she will be having yet another gruesome dental surgery.  In the last decade, she has spent thousands and thousands of dollars on every possible thing:  all for the sake of saving her teeth, which are just bad.

She used to have excellent teeth, until she got to the States and had sole fruit of her loins.  Then, all hell broke loose.  Inside her mouth, that is.

American candy didn’t help, either.

In a little over a week, self is finally biting the bullet and going for an implant.  She’s missed the tooth for about 15 years, why’d she wait so long to have an implant?  Because an implant costs twice as much as a crown, that’s why!

Anyhoo, it turned out to be a rather routine affair:  self was disappointed.  A dental assistant went over the procedure, and it seemed fairly cut and dried.  “There might be swelling and some bruising,” the dental assistant told her.  Oh!  Self said she knew what that was like.  Why, just last month, she had a humongous black eye, and a swollen eyelid, and a lump on her right frontal lobe, and it was three weeks before the last bruises faded.  Even now, when self examines her face in the mirror, she thinks her right cheek is just a shade darker than her left.  Because of course the black eye was on the right side of her face.  And now, when she has had trouble sleeping, the shadows on the right side of her face are blue-grey, almost like the black eye she had in October.

Let’s see, what did the dental assistant say?  For a week, she should eat only soft food like yogurt and bananas.  No extraordinarily hot or cold food, either.  Which means:  no soup (unless cold, like gazpacho), and no ice cream (Boo).

Tomorrow self is going to see Niece G.  At last!  She’s really missed her.  She used to see her much more, but nowadays self’s schedule is very hectic.

We are going to something in the consulate.  Niece G asks if there will be food.  “Of course!” self assures her.  “This is a Filipino reading!  There has to be food!”

It will be one heck of a long drive to the City, and in the last few years self’s nerves (when she drives) are extremely bad.  Honestly, there have been times when self steps on the brakes in the middle of an intersection, and Niece G has to yell in her ear:  GO, TITA!  GOOOO!!!  STEP ON IT!

But that adventure will have to wait until tomorrow.

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

Special About 2012

After many years of trying, she finally got a piece picked up by Alimentum.

She finally joined the Barnes & Noble Rewards Program (though she’s been in and out of her local branch for something like 20 years)

The New Orleans Review took “Thing,” her story about mutant pigs and strangelings.

She has joined contests (8 so far)

She decided not to let her subscription to The New York Times Book Review lapse.

She extended her New Yorker subscription for one more year.

She read with Kazim Ali, Garrett Hongo, David Henry Hwang, Bao Phi, Marie Myung-Ok Lee and Anna Kazumi Stahl in the National Portrait Gallery.  Also:  she met the three funniest gals it was ever her pleasure to meet and had drop-dead delicious gelato.  Also, big big thanks to Lawrence, Gerard and Terry.  Also, she saw the Ford Theater (where President Lincoln was shot) and went into at least three Smithsonian museums (with the husband).  She even went to Georgetown one day and had lunch with an old friend.

She spoke to Margarita D who told her about her plan to go to Venice, early next year (Self volunteered to come along!)

She went to India.  And saw the Golden Temple at Amritsar.  And heard monks chanting deep in a forest.  And made the acquaintance of the Colonel, Pratibha, an incorrigibly rambunctious Labrador, and the two brothers who manage the Snowcrest Inn in Dharamsala (Would you believe, the inn is owned by a fifty-something Malaysian woman?)  All the time self was in India, she never experienced a sick moment.

“The Avengers” movie came out, and she liked it.

She spent the entire month of March in Bacolod.  Zack joined her for the last week.

She took Niece G to the Asian Art Museum and had lunch at Brenda’s.

Niece G gifted her with a lb. of coffee from Philz.

Son and Jennie came for a visit; we had dinner at Max’s Restaurant with Kramer and Niece G.  We went to a Jean Paul Gaultier exhibit at the de Young.  We went to the Japanese Tea Garden and had mochi.  Kevin F came over with his guitar on son’s last night and sang many beautiful songs for us.

She finally got her hands on a paperback copy of the Final Report of the 9/11 Commission, which was published in 2004.  It is a really hefty book:  she’ll read it on the plane to London.

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

San Francisco: Gallivanting

Wednesday, with Jennie and Son, waiting for Niece G at 23rd and Folsom

Niece G told self a few months ago that this will be her last year in San Francisco –  WAAAAH!  San Francisco just won’t be the same without her.

Self took this picture by a pond in the Japanese Tea Garden in Golden Gate Park, Wednesday afternoon.  (It was chilly!)

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

Cleaning

There are all kinds of things self dredges up from the nooks and crannies of son’s room.

While other empty-nesters of self’s acquaintance quickly converted their college children’s rooms into guest rooms, not self.  She has preserved every scrap of paper, every poster, every letter.  Son’s room is like a Museum, the Museum of Childhood.  Nothing has changed, except that now self uses son’s bookshelves to array her own books, which would take over the entire house if she let it.

There was the time, several years ago, when she stumbled across a card that said:

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1st Wednesday Post-Washington DC Trip: Cleaning the House

It is another gorgeous day.  Self’s hands are full of little cuts from pruning and re-planting a small rose bush.  The old wound, the one she got just a few days before leaving for Washington DC, is completely healed.

She wonders if she should bother getting a pedicure.  In anticipation of son and Jennie visiting next week.  And besides, with the weather warming up, it is so nice to have pretty toe-nails to show off when wearing sandals.  While self and the husband were in DC, self couldn’t help noticing that blue and yellow and lime green were popular among the women of DC.  The ones, that is, who were wearing sandals on the gorgeous last day of the trip, Sunday 15 April, when the husband and self were strolling from one museum to another.

Niece G is so excited to see son and Jennie, and so is self.  In fact, the whole world is excited, because yesterday afternoon, self started a conversation with her neighbor, Claudio, and after she told him that son and his girlfriend would be visiting next week, Claudio said to be sure they stop by to say hello.  He’ll even serve them Prosecco, and then he might ask son and Jennie to show off some fancy dance moves, because Claudio’s wife Mary loves to dance.

Anyhoo, as self just got through saying, it is a gorgeous day, and her pants are tight.  She lives in absolute horror of returning to Bacolod and hearing the laundry woman at L’Fisher Chalet say:  “Tumaba ka.” (You’ve gotten fat).  During self’s most recent Bacolod visit, the laundry woman said it, at least three times.  Then she added this final dagger in self’s heart:  “If you keep gaining weight, the next time you come, WHAT will you look like?”

The only solution is to not eat.  Not eat for days.

Self has also undertaken to poke into the backs of all her cabinet drawers, and she keeps pulling out sheets of yellowing newspaper.  One sheet is wrapped around a still-unopened package labeled:

GENUINE CAMIAS

Bulong Sa Nervios, Suloksulok, Panuko, Panlibang Kurog, Malaria Kag Bulao

Self thinks this is Ilonggo, not Tagalog.  And she is proven correct when she reads, at the bottom of the label, the words ILOILO PHILIPPINES.

In addition, she comes across a very old newspaper called Ohlone College Monitor.  She has a feeling she hung on to it for one reason only.  Again, self is proven correct, for at the bottom of p. 1 is an article titled “Filipino Writer Speaks to Class.”

Of course, it’s about herself.  The writer is Clarissa Aljentera (probably has a husband and three kids by now:  the issue is dated 1997!)

Here’s an excerpt:

She was on campus last Tuesday night to speak to the Filipino American Literature class.

She is the author of the book Ginseng and Other Tales From Manila.  This was about the time when Ferdinand Marcos was in power in the Philippines.

However, this wasn’t her first published work.  She had written “Siko” as part of the book The Forbidden Stitch.  After that anthology came out in 1989, her name started to get spread around the Filipino-American community.

Okey-dokey!  Must get back to cleaning.  Stay tuned!

Mitch Albom: FOR ONE MORE DAY

This is a slim little novel, but turns out to be surprisingly engaging (The husband interrupts to inquire what movie we are to see tomorrow.  Self doesn’t think there will be enough time for a movie.  Since we are leaving for Washington DC in a matter of days — !)

At this juncture, the MacMini decides to act up:  turns out the “Keyboard Batteries are low and may shut down at any moment.”  But self is at the moment too stressed to go hunting around in the closet for keyboard batteries.  She’ll do it when the keyboard shuts down.  As it will.  Eventually.

The next book on self’s reading list is another slim little Albom novel:  The Five People You Meet in Heaven (Who thinks up these titles?  The publisher?  Anyhoo, a little research yields this nugget:  The Five People You Meet in Heaven is # 7 on Time Magazine’s list of “Top 10 Airplane Books”)  There are no copies in the Redwood City Library, but there is one in Atherton.  Self checks and sees that the Atherton Library is open on Sunday afternoons.  So perhaps, after 7:30 am Easter Mass, self can squeeze in a trip to the Menlo Park Farmers Market, plant a few more gladiolus bulbs, and then, after lunch, head for Atherton (Hello, earth to self!  No library will be open on Easter Sunday!)

Here are a few of the things self did today:

  • Began revising an old story.  Working title, which self is extremely dissatisfied with, “Good.”
  • Early in the morning, watered.  After getting back from the Asian Art Museum and lunching at Brenda’s (with a detour to Hillsdale Mall so the husband could buy himself a new pair of sunglasses),  watered some more.  The garden looks so good now, the plants all lush and fat.  It will not look this way in a few more months, summer.  Self can barely trundle a bucket of water around, it takes 20 buckets three times a week just to get the plants surviving (never mind thriving) until the cooler temperatures of fall.
  • Met Niece G at Philz Coffee on Folsom and 24th.  The line was incredible.  Asked for a pound of Jamaican Blue Mountain, Niece presented her credit card as she insisted on treating.  “That’ll be $120,” said the cashier.  Self thought she was joking.  No.  A pound of Jamaica Blue Mountain from Phil’s Coffee really is $120.  “What about a fourth of a lb.?” the cashier asked.  That would be $30.  Eeek!  The lady behind the counter, the one who was about to grind the coffee for self’s Krups, suggested another type of coffee which she said was just $17.95 a pound.  Oh thank goodness!
  • Saw the exhibit on Indian Maharajahs at the Asian Art Museum (a great exhibit, self was so happy she caught it just before it closes, tomorrow)
  • Had a late lunch at Brenda’s (The beignet sampler was divine.  So was the pulled pork sandwich with grits.  And the husband’s order of crispy pork belly).  We only had to wait about half an hour.
  • Did laundry, watered, cooked dinner, washed up.  Self saw that the Betty Sheffield camellia, which she planted two years ago, is blooming.  It now has four big, fat, red flowers (It is a very scrawny plant, four blooms look about the size of Volkswagen Beetles)

And now, finally, here we are at the ostensible reason for this post, the quote from For One More Day,  p. 21:

My father once told me, “You can be a mama’s boy or a daddy’s boy.  But you can’t be both.”

So I was a daddy’s boy.  I mimicked his walk.  I mimicked his deep, smoky laugh.  I carried a baseball glove because he loved baseball, and I took every hardball he threw, even the ones that stung my hands so badly I thought I would scream.

Tomorrow, Easter Sunday, Niece G informed self that there is a contest for best “Hunky Jesus” to be held in Dolores Park, at either 3 or 4 in the afternoon.

HAPPY EASTER TO ALL!

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

Accomplished: Post-Bacolod, Week 1

  • Called Kathleen B, just back from her own Magical Philippine Memory Tour
  • Got Super-Nice Rejection from The Paris Review.
  • Learned that a tornado hit Bacolod on the day she left.
  • Learned that Niece G was in Arizona recently, with her parents and younger brother Chris.
  • Learned that northern California in early April is still cold.
  • Learned that Jeremy Lin had surgery recently.
  • Perused Nicholson Baker novels in local Barnes & Noble.
  • Saw Niece G in the City yesterday evening. Ate at Indian restaurant on Valencia (Udupi Palace, 1007 Valencia: they only take cash).  Discovered Modern Times moved to a new location (According to niece, years ago).  Told Niece about her adventures in Bir and Dharamsala. Sprang for bill, which came out to a grand total of $11.83 (This was a main dish –  vegetable/pineapple chapati w/ three kinds of curry, and a small bowl of lentil soup — and two desserts)

Niece G, Wednesday Evening, at Udupi Palace on Valencia Street, San Francisco

  • Began revising an old story, “Ambition.”
  • Sent out xx stories.  Self forgets exactly how many.  But it feels like she sent out a lot.
  • Re-wrote pig story.
  • Sent author bio to another magazine.
  • Watched “Animal House” (last night).  Was reminded of how pretty Brooke Allen was.  And how cute Tim Matheson was.  And how hilarious John Belushi was.
  • Cleaned the bathroom.
  • Went to Costco, purchased ground beef, Nyquil cold pills, Salonpas.
  • Made for dinner: chicken curry; ground beef and tofu (Korean-style); chicken stir-fried with asparagus
  • Dropped by Pampelmousse, successfully avoided buying more than one coconut macaroon.
  • Saw “The Hunger Games.”  Grade:  B
  • Watched penultimate episode of “Justified.”  Grade:  B
  • Did three loads of laundry.
  • Fertilized camellias, clematis, ferns, hydrangeas, roses.
  • Swept away all the dog hair and dust balls from the kitchen, dining room, and living room.
  • Paid a bill.
  • Deposited an author payment check, HOORAY!
  • Checked Facebook at least once a day. Chatted with Margarita Donnelly.  Who sounds as chipper as ever (Margarita is attending a Poetry Concord in May!)
  • Lost her favorite pair of earrings. Bought a new pair for $12.
  • Researched when next new episode of “Revenge” is set to air:  April 18, YAY!
  • Watched “1000 Ways to Die” (aka the Stupidest Show on Television). The husband was laughing so hard, self didn’t have the heart to demand that he change the station.
  • Watched Stanford women’s basketball team get trounced by Baylor in the NCAA semi-finals.

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

Road Trip: Dumaguete

South Sea Resort, just north of Dumaguete at Bantayan Beach. That's Zack, looking out at the ocean.

South Sea Resort served as the setting for self’s story, “Dumaguete,” published by the on-line journal White Whale Review and included in her most recent story collection, The Lost Language, published by Anvil Press of the Philippines.  (Frances Cabahug, on a bus to Dumaguete, posts on Facebook that she is reading “Dumaguete.”  Self thinks the picture she posted is trés cool!)

Early Morning, South Seas Resort, Bantayan Beach

A boat sails across a glassy sea, Bantayan Beach, just north of Dumaguete

In the open kitchen of South Seas Resort, Bantayan Beach, Dumaguete. Self brought son and niece Georgina here, many years ago. Fried fish for breakfast, anyone?

Niece G, self, and son stayed in a cottege facing the pool.  One night, while the children played in the water, the writer Cesar Ruiz Aquino came over.  Where is he now?  Self loved his story, the one that appeared in Manoa, many years ago.

Still early morning: a boat approaches the beach

Self has said it before, and she'll say it again: Nothing is as beautiful as a Philippine sea.

Self tried out a new driver:  Samuel.  He said he was born near Santa Fe Resort.  When self asked him how many times he’d been to Dumaguete, he said “Many times,” too many to count.

Stay tuned, dear blog readers.  Stay tuned.

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